Men's Work & Men's Group

Alone and in the company of other men. Iron shapes iron. The masculine grows in challenge from the masculine and in appreciation from the feminine. Please note that with feminine and masculine I mean the energy and not the gender of the person embodying that energy. Masculinity is an inner game that needs role models as much as introspection. It is the hero journey, going against the odds and trusting an inner insight, following his truths, to craft his divine path. It is standing for that which no one else around seems to stand for, with honor and conviction. The masculine is a penetrative energy. It wants to cut through the world, through lies and through veils of illusion. The healthy masculine relaxes in truth. It is clarity, purpose, direction, and discipline. The masculine knows what he wants, who he is and will go through any obstacle to get where he knows he must be.

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I mention masculine, not men, since both men and women have masculine and feminine energies. Although in most men, not all, there is a stronger expression of masculine energy. Sometimes, it is just a matter of the degree that you as an individual allow the expression of one or the other, or what the expression of your soul through you is regardless of your gender. If you are a man, developing a healthy inner feminine is a good idea in my opinion, especially if you want to develop a healthy masculine that is not out of balanced or distorted. The development of your masculine edge as a man, will surely bring development of your feminine side too.

There are few things more sexy than a man in touch with his inner world and responding with awareness and intention from it. That awareness and connection with body, mind and soul comes with the integration of the feminine side. At the end of the day, the game for me is not to become a more masculine man, but a more integrated and healthy man where whatever my soul essence is, will naturally unfold. When this integration happens our true nature will shine without needing to act or look a certain way. There is total acceptance of who we are, of all the colours radiating within ourselves and we enjoy an inner balance between our masculine and feminine essences. A healthy integrated man is not afraid of other men, is not afraid of connecting with other men, enjoys life and does not avoid either his emotions or the emotions of his partner. He has the capacity to stand in the middle of the storm staying present and connected to his truth. He does not need a partner to be happy and joyful, although he might choose to share his life with one.

It is important to do​ this work exclusively among men to create a space of deep understanding, trust and empathy. There is a level of relating and camaraderie harder to achieve when women are involved. Same reason why women-only spaces exist. They support different purposes, as mixed spaces support other purposes and they are all important and necessary.