Tantra Massage

Tantra massage is a portal. It is an initiation into deeper, subtler and more ecstatic experiences of your being. It is a meeting of the Divine between the bodies of the giver and the receiver. It is a sacred space where your body, is met with presence and devotional touch. To be held in such space of devotion is nothing short of extraordinary and marks a before and after in the life of many.

In a Tantra massage, no part of the body is left untouched. Which means that genitals are also included. There is a two important reason for that:

1. Genitals are probably the most shamed and misunderstood area of our bodies and healing through present loving touch is most important in this area as it stores a lot of tension and trauma that deeply affects the quality of our lives and our identification as sexual beings.

2. Life force energy, creative energy, or eros, it all sits in the area of the pelvic floor and genitals. In Tantra in general, and in Tantra massage in particular, we want to reclaim this potent energy, this pleasure and learn to circulate it up in our bodies, use it for creative endeavours and be with it without getting burned or taken by it. We do so by inviting breath, sound and movement during the massage.

For this reason genital touch is a very important part of this massage since we want to learn to master this energy. Sometimes eros awakens without touching the genitals, and that is also fine and welcome.

Something that Tantra Massage is not is an erotic massage, meaning a massage were the ultimate goal is ejaculation via friction. Nothing wrong with it and nothing related to it either.

Some of my clients share that they have never felt so held and safe to just be and receive. They are able to go beyond performance or worrying that they need to give and they allow themselves to fully surrender.

Other women share about the incredible nourishment and healing that they experience when they are touched by a touch that asks anything in return, and they are met just with presence and atunement. This is specially important for women that have suffered some form of sexual abuse and where trust in another, specially in a man, needs to be restored.

Tantra massage might be for you if:

You want to expand and reclaim your pleasure.

You want to heal sexual wounds and feel safe in your body again.

You find yourself tense and in your mind in sexual contexts or in the company of a men.

You long to be touched with presence, devotion and attunement.

You desire to feel your sexual aliveness fully without worrying that you need to offer something for it in return.

You long to deeply surrender and let go.

Method

The first time I came in contact with the art of Tantra Massage was when I was being part of the 1-Year program "Expanding into Love" at the Temple of Tantric Arts, in Belgium back in 2022. At the beginning, I enjoyed giving and receiving but I was not very impressed. At some point in the journey something clicked and I realised... Oh my God, I actually love doing this. Further along the process and after doing some massages with friends, I started considering the idea of making it a professional path. In 2024, I eventually became a certified Tantra Massage practitioner by the Temple of Tantric Arts.

Tantra massage can have different flavours and techniques. Some of the most popular ones are Kashmiri and Taoist. The one I offer could be labeled as intuitive as there is not a timed or strict ordered sequence. Presence and listening to the body guides the massage. What I love about the intuitive technique is that it allows to work with whatever is present in the here and now.

There is however, a general sequence and order in my massages. First the back part of the body is massaged, then the front part and last, if it is within the boundaries of the receiver, the genital area.

Practical details

The oil I use is coconut or almond oil as it has been proven to be the most suitable and safe to massage genital areas.

The session starts with a conversation to talk through any important information that I would need to know as a masseur. This generally contains boundaries, desires, information about injuries, and setting an intention for the massage. After a short prayer of consecration, I start meeting your body energetically. At some point I will start touching in a grounding way to bring safety.

If energy is moving, I will invite you to move, sound and breath to bring presence and space to your body. When the massage concludes, you will be covered with a blanket and will have 5 to 10 minutes to integrate the experience. A brief conversation to exchange gratitude without going too much to the mental body will be held. Concluding in silence and gratitude is also an option.

Sessions last around 3 hours. The session time includes the massage and the preparatory steps before and after the massage.

The price for a 3 hours session is 300 €.

Extra charges apply if I transfer to your location.

My why

I absolutely love to do this. It is one of the moments in my daily life where I feel more on purpose. It a transcendental practice for me. After each massage I stop and go in silence to let sink the sacredness, the honor and the beauty of the experience. I get transformed by every massage I offer.

Moreover, I feel this type of work is so needed. I keep seeing people and women in particular so tense and carrying weights and burdens that are not for them to carry. Some of these burdens are stories and bagagge from the past no longer serving. I wish to see a world full of empowered women, connected to their feminine and shinning their radiance. Women that feel safe in letting go, in trusting, in surrendering and in expressing the infinite love that they are. Women that are able to move through past events of abuse and live their most juicy and wonderful life.

May all this come to live and may I be in service to it.

If you feel a spark, an excitement to work with me, you can reach me in social media through the icons below. I am looking forward to geeting to know you!